Past few days have been busy helped deliver one baby yesterday, dealing with the academy and the complaints with them a possible avenue to follow up on this case and tonight another birth but we had to stop this baby coming out it is only 24 weeks in gestation.
So I am home now sore tired and all I can think about is this form for court.. sooner it goes in the better.. so tomorrow after I drop all the children to school fill it out and off to court I go..
This process, I never knew existed, so I can allow myself a little time to think and possibly hope that forward is still possible, a life without his presence can happen, that the law will do what it is set up to do.
Again this process hasn’t been done by this lady before but she’s been honest and open so tbh even if it proves to be a dead end it will give her knowledge to help others..
I’m looking into laws and changing them 50,000 signatures to get a bill looked at in parliament! Could we get that? The failings are not just mine alone many women and men suffer domestic violence, from a simple slap up to rape and disfigurement, the harassment and intimidation from the perpetrator that the law allows has to change could we get that? Yes I feel deep down we could.
you don’t know until you try, this time round I’ll try everything , anything, I should not even be in this situation again fighting for my rights to be protected against my rapist.. he waited for his licence to end this time , thinking he would be covered by the law again..then came again trying to get a response, why?
You and your wife are 3 months pregnant yet you contact me after all this time, why? You contact me, them send people telling me to leave you alone! I haven’t made any effort to contact you or her at all yet so Why do that? What is it you want? You ain’t mentioned your child this time not even to the solicitor at court she told me , it shocked her, you were told before go through the proper channels get a solicitor apply for access, you know the child was given free choice as always on whether to see you, he again chose no, so why?
Some may think does it matter why? At this stage after living like this so long , yes this time it matters why because it’s been 13 years .. you have a new life a wife there’s nothing here for you.. so why matters we read in the news ” she reported it the police didn’t listen”- this is after a person has died at the hands of a partner or ex. Is it enough ? No. Well I do t want to be hurt to be heard …
Is it fair we have to fight or die to get protection or laws changed ? No.
This has been an issue for the police for years the stated with government about all the new changes around domestic violence- its all an illusion.
Well let’s see if we can start change from the bottom the judges need the back history on non molestation order day and what we the victim( hate that word ) need is the right to be heard at that stage, not told the law states just this, he states it will mess his work if!! He’s done the wrong and punishments usually do leave you feeling messed with that’s the idea 💡 helps you understand what you did was wrong and it would free up police courts lawyers time and they could help others more efficiently
Helping others not go through the degrading process I just have is my aim.. permanent change in the laws to protect us not them
Jenny's Justice 