Court and contact from police

Well I’m totally honest I’ve been silent as I’m struggling , I’ve had this historic domestic violence issue, the fight with the school academy and government, social and community integration, family problems, my head has been a nightmare ..

I’ve been posting and reading the plights if others within our family court system and interacting , I’m so upset by the lack of support not only for us but the services helping us , somehow, it’s been noticed.. I have been contacted by the police today..

I must explain when I post I don’t think to much ( well didn’t till now ) about the reach my posts have .. I’ve just been releasing my frustrations, disbeliefs and feelings about my personal situation , it’s opened my eyes to social media and the screen 📺 it’s a window to the world..

Well again I have explained brief history and I again hope for what’s right.. I have to hope that I can get to crown court and present my case and evidence to a jury to decide independently.. I have to hope I can make a difference to others like me, the children, the police so their time can be freed up and more practically used, the courts so they have the power to pass on serious cases, they deal with domestic violence daily they see, they know.

Why not stop the degrading process that is and make those changes that in the long run will help everyone that deserves it and put the criminals when consistently breaching In suitable punishments or prison .. you can’t give them orders and conditions if you don’t enforce them🙄

3 separate coincidences(as they’ve been called with me and my case with his behaviour) and they the criminal should be in, questioned, scrutinised ,properly assessed on the evidence at hand and hearing the voice of their abused.. they are the threat to society if they are continuing patterns of behaviour the same as sentenced for

I’m in court in 2 days again, I’ve explained I will not after all this hide behind screens , the laws have allowed him face in access to me so I’ll stand strong.. show nothing as that’s what I feel towards him nothing.. those screens now after this time will just empower his belief he still has control..I fear a response of no action from court as their hands are tied by the laws of the land .. I’m full of adrenaline, aware, alert, I’m creating my own safety the way jenny knows how..

I’ve stopped reporting as I’m not being treated the way I have been anymore, my mental state can’t cope and I’ve got too much to lose stepping back into helping with the children.. my self value has surpassed your disingenuous laws.. my need to ensure others don’t suffer the degrading, uncaring, harmful stuff I’ve gone through well it’s stronger than my fears.

coercion and control well it’s not being addressed.. I’ve researched, it’s there in black and white, different levels of assessment , guidelines to follow separate considerations for sexual assault.. The only reason I can pul forward as to why my case is being ignored is it shows flaws , loopholes he has used to abuse from a distance, involving the police,without them realising to indict that long reaching power he had, extending his reign over me .. it shows failings in the system, but I don’t care about that now , only in the process of evidence to get the protection me and my children need ..

Another big issue they keep moving the victims and children awY, your destroying families people, it’s not us you need t move – here’s a tip, stop them MOVE THEM threaten them with jail like you threaten us with taking our children if we don’t move.. the children need theschool they know parks ,familiar sights people, the mums needs their families and friends while reviving it can take years .. you strip us of that support .. too many just moved awY no choice already low and drained.. so much is so wrong .. you do this as from what I see you then no longer have to deal with us. PROBLEM SOLVED EH.. no you just moved it elsewhere to make your life more simple..

More waiting to be contacted .. the process is a big issue .. time consuming, repetitive, long responses takes weeks months if they reply at all.. replies come, it’s like they answered another persons letter as nothing they have responded with corresponds with what you wrote..

THE FURTHER IN YOU DIG you see the reality , it’s a painful enlightenment..

Be vocal, stop hiding, persist for your rights .. in these situations our rights should matter more than they do at present and tbh they should if vocalised in the proper manner matter more than those who commit these serious offences..

I’m tired sore and heavy souled . I have a young daughter , How do I one day tell her if she gets attacked I could have stopped it by fighting harder for rights of women everywhere to live without constant fear .. I was here 3/4 years ago and got worn down by the process I shall not give in this time .. someone has to take a stand this rubbish cannot and should not be allowed to continue In The name of British Law ..